Released: February 24, 2004

Songwriter: Dave Meyers (Producer) Mo’ Benjamin Terry Ellis (En Vogue) Thomas McElroy Denzil Foster Cindy Herron

Producer: Dave Meyers (Producer) Mo’ Benjamin

[Chorus: En Vogue]
I dissed him, now I miss him
But I miss him because I dissed him
But he done me wrong and I'm not that strong
To resist him, so I kissed him
Should I have kissed him when I dissed him?
Should I have dissed him when I only miss him?
I don't really know but I'm all alone
And I miss him, I really miss him

[Verse 1: Rhona Bennett]
Now that he's gone out of my life
I don't know whether to laugh or to cry
It cuts like a knife, every time we say goodbye
I wanna die (No)
He's so deserving, but he's so self-serving
He made me so mad, I know it's sad
'Cause now I want him so bad
But he lied to me
And he knows that that shit ain't gonna fly with me
So, I

[Chorus: En Vogue]
I dissed him, now I miss him
But I miss him because I dissed him
But he done me wrong and I'm not that strong
To resist him, so I kissed him
Should I have kissed him when I dissed him?
Should I have dissed him when I only miss him?
I don't really know but I'm all alone
And I miss him, I really miss him

[Verse 2: Cindy Herron]
Weeks gone by, he doesn't show
I can't breathe no more and my heart is aching so
Confuse emotions in every way
And if I could have him here then I'd see better days
If he could see what he's done to me
I can't sleep and I can't eat and I'm on my knees
Begging the Lord to find my love and send him back
'Cause now I realize he was the apple of my eye

[Chorus: En Vogue]
I dissed him, now I miss him
But I miss him because I dissed him
But he done me wrong and I'm not that strong
To resist him, so I kissed him
Should I have kissed him when I dissed him?
Should I have dissed him when I only miss him?
I don't really know but I'm all alone
And I miss him, I really miss him

[Bridge: Terry Ellis]
So what do I do?
I'm so in love with you but something's got to change
Can't go on this way
I've spent plenty nights trying to make it right
'Cause I love you, boy, and I want you in my life
It's like a melody in a song that's haunting me
The memories of deceit makes it hard for us to be
I need a little discipline in my life
'Cause my soul I won't sacrifice

[Chorus: En Vogue]
I dissed him, now I miss him
But I miss him because I dissed him
But he done me wrong and I'm not that strong
To resist him, so I kissed him
Should I have kissed him when I dissed him?
Should I have dissed him when I only miss him?
I don't really know but I'm all alone
And I miss him, I really miss him
I dissed him, now I miss him
But I miss him because I dissed him
But he done me wrong and I'm not that strong
To resist him, so I kissed him
Should I have kissed him when I dissed him?
Should I have dissed him when I only miss him?
I don't really know but I'm all alone
And I miss him, I really miss him
I dissed him, now I miss him
But I miss him because I dissed him
But he done me wrong...

En Vogue

Cindy Herron, Terry Ellis, Maxine Jones, and Dawn Robinson are the original members of the R&B girl group En Vogue. The group was put together by producers Thomas McElroy and Denzil Foster after a talent search in Oakland, California in 1989. Their debut album Born to Sing was released in 1990 and featured the #1 R&B hits “You Don’t Have To Worry,” “Lies,” and their platinum debut single “Hold On,” which also peaked at #2 on the Billboard Hot 100 chart and won a Billboard and Soul Train Music Award. Their 1992 follow-up album Funky Divas hit #1 on the Billboard R&B Albums chart and peaked at #8 on the Billboard 200 on its way to triple platinum status. The lead single, “My Lovin' (You’re Never Gonna Get It),” helped propel that success as it hit #1 on the Billboard R&B Singles chart and #2 on the Billboard Hot 100. The album also featured the #1 R&B hit cover of Aretha Franklin’s “Giving Him Something He Can Feel” as well as the Top 10 pop single “Free Your Mind.”

In 1993, they released the EP Runaway Love and made appearances on the TV shows In Living Color, Roc and A Different World. In 1994, they collaborated with Salt-N-Pepa on their Top 3 platinum single “Whatta Man” and in 1996 they contributed to the Set It Off soundtrack with their hit single “Don’t Let Go (Love)” which peaked at #2 on the Billboard Hot 100 and hit #1 on the R&B Singles chart.

While working on their third album, Dawn Robinson decided to leave the group due to issues with management. The group decided to go on as a trio and released their third platinum album EV3 in 1997 featuring the Top 10 R&B/Top 20 pop hit “Whatever,” which was produced and co-written by Babyface. They went on to release three more albums—Masterpiece Theatre in 2000, The Gift of Christmas in 2002, and Soul Flower in 2004. During that time, Maxine Jones left the group in 2001 and was replaced by Amanda Cole, and Cole was later replaced in 2003 by Rhona Bennett. While the original four members have reunited for performances throughout the years, the current lineup consists of Herron, Ellis, and Bennett, and they released the single “Déjà Vu” in 2016 and released their album Electric Café in 2018.