Released: February 10, 2015

Songwriter: Dolly Parton

Producer: T-Bone Burnett

[Verse 1]
Our love affair is bittersweet, insecure and incomplete
And I've often wondered why your leaving's been so long delayed
It's all become so complicated, maybe you feel so obligated
And out of sympathy for me, you stay

[Chorus]
But I had rather live alone than live with someone who doesn't love me
And I'd rather have you go than stay and put me down thinkin' you're above me
Our love affair is so wound up, it's best that we unwind
And if you don't love me; leave me, and don't let it trouble your mind

[Verse 2]
You've waited much too long to leave, afraid of how I'd take it
And I'm deeply touched by your concern, but I think I can make it
It won't be easy for a while, but I'll forget in time
And if you don't leave me, and don't let it trouble your mind

[Chorus]
But I had rather live alone than live with someone who doesn't love me
And I'd rather have you go than stay and put me down thinkin' you're above me
Our love affair is so wound up, it's best that we unwind
And if you don't love me; leave me, and don't let it trouble your mind

[Outro]
Our love affair is bittersweet, insecure and incomplete
And I've often wondered why your leaving's been so long delayed

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Rhiannon Giddens is a celebrated artist who excavates the past to reveal truths about our present. A MacArthur “Genius Grant” recipient, Giddens has been Grammy-nominated six times, and won once, for her work with the Carolina Chocolate Drops, a group she co-founded. She was nominated this year for her collaboration with multi-instrumentalist Francesco Turrisi, there is no Other (2019), an album that is at once a condemnation of “othering” and a celebration of the spread of ideas, connectivity, and shared experience. She has performed for the Obamas at the White House and acted in two seasons of the hit television series Nashville. Giddens has been profiled by CBS Sunday Morning, the New York Times, and NPR’s Fresh Air, among other outlets. She is featured in Ken Burns’s Country Music series, which aired on PBS last fall. In 2019, Giddens also formed the band Our Native Daughters with three other black female banjo players and contributed to and produced their album Songs of Our Native Daughters (2019), which tells stories of historic black womanhood and survival. Pitchfork has said of her “few artists are so fearless and so ravenous in their exploration,” and Smithsonian Magazine calls her “an electrifying artist who brings alive the memories of forgotten predecessors, white and black.”

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