Released: April 18, 1983
Songwriter: Roland Orzabal
Producer: Ross Cullum Chris Hughes
[Intro: Roland Orzabal]
How could ever know?
How could I decide when you're inside?
Won't ever let me go, how can I be sure?
[Verse 1: Curt Smith]
How can I be sure
When your intrusion's my illusion?
How can I be sure
When all the time you change my mind?
I ask for more and more
How can I be sure?
[Chorus: Curt Smith and Roland Orzabal]
When you don't give me love
You give me pale shelter
You don't give me love
You give me cold hands
And I can't operate on this failure
When all I wanna be is
Completely in command
[Verse 2: Curt Smith]
How can I be sure
For all you say you keep me waiting
How can I be sure
When all you do is see me through?
I ask for more and more
How can I be sure?
[Chorus: Curt Smith and Roland Orzabal]
When you don't give me love
You give me pale shelter
You don't give me love
You give me cold hands
And I can't operate on this failure
When all I wanna be is
Completely in command
[Interlude]
[Verse 3: Curt Smith]
I've been here before
There is no why, no need to try
I thought you had it all
I'm calling you, I'm calling you
I ask for more and more
How can I be sure?
[Chorus: Curt Smith and Roland Orzabal]
When you don't give me love
You give me pale shelter
You don't give me love
You give me cold hands
And I can't operate on this failure
When all I wanna be is
Completely in command
[Interlude]
[Verse 4: Curt Smith]
Calling you, I'm calling you
I ask for more and more
How can I be sure?
[Chorus: Curt Smith and Roland Orzabal]
When you don't give me love
You give me pale shelter
You don't give me love
You give me cold hands
And I can't operate on this failure
When all I wanna be is
Completely in command
Completely in command
[Outro: Curt Smith]
You don't give me love, you don't give me love
You don't give me love, you don't give me love
You don't give me love, you don't give me love
You don't give me love, you don't give me love
You don't give me love, you don't give me love
You don't give me love, you don't give me love
How could ever know?
How could I decide when you're inside?
Won't ever let me go, how can I be sure?
[Verse 1: Curt Smith]
How can I be sure
When your intrusion's my illusion?
How can I be sure
When all the time you change my mind?
I ask for more and more
How can I be sure?
[Chorus: Curt Smith and Roland Orzabal]
When you don't give me love
You give me pale shelter
You don't give me love
You give me cold hands
And I can't operate on this failure
When all I wanna be is
Completely in command
[Verse 2: Curt Smith]
How can I be sure
For all you say you keep me waiting
How can I be sure
When all you do is see me through?
I ask for more and more
How can I be sure?
[Chorus: Curt Smith and Roland Orzabal]
When you don't give me love
You give me pale shelter
You don't give me love
You give me cold hands
And I can't operate on this failure
When all I wanna be is
Completely in command
[Interlude]
[Verse 3: Curt Smith]
I've been here before
There is no why, no need to try
I thought you had it all
I'm calling you, I'm calling you
I ask for more and more
How can I be sure?
[Chorus: Curt Smith and Roland Orzabal]
When you don't give me love
You give me pale shelter
You don't give me love
You give me cold hands
And I can't operate on this failure
When all I wanna be is
Completely in command
[Interlude]
[Verse 4: Curt Smith]
Calling you, I'm calling you
I ask for more and more
How can I be sure?
[Chorus: Curt Smith and Roland Orzabal]
When you don't give me love
You give me pale shelter
You don't give me love
You give me cold hands
And I can't operate on this failure
When all I wanna be is
Completely in command
Completely in command
[Outro: Curt Smith]
You don't give me love, you don't give me love
You don't give me love, you don't give me love
You don't give me love, you don't give me love
You don't give me love, you don't give me love
You don't give me love, you don't give me love
You don't give me love, you don't give me love
The Hurting
- Memories Fade
- The Way You Are (12" Version)
- Change (New Version)
- Ideas As Opiates (Live) [Peel Session 1982]
- Suffer the Children (Live) [Peel Session 1982]
- The Prisoner (Live) [Peel Session 1982]
- The Hurting (Live) [Peel Session 1982]
- Memories Fade (Live) [David Jensen Session 1982]
- The Prisoner (Live) [David Jensen Session 1982]
- Start of the Breakdown (Live) [David Jensen Session 1982]
- Pale Shelter (Long Version)
- Mad World (World Remix)
- Change
- Mad World
- Pale Shelter
- The Prisoner
- Start of the Breakdown
- The Hurting
- Change (Extended Version)
- Watch Me Bleed
- Suffer the Children
- Ideas As Opiates
- The Hurting (Live) [David Jensen Session 1982]
- The Hurting (1983)
- Tears Roll Down (Greatest Hits 82–92) (1992)
- Everybody Wants to Rule the World
- Mad World
- Head Over Heels / Broken (Reprise)
- Shout
- Sowing the Seeds of Love
- Pale Shelter
- Woman in Chains
- Memories Fade
- I Love You But I’m Lost
- Listen
- Watch Me Bleed
- The Working Hour
- Break It Down Again
- Mothers Talk
- Advice for the Young at Heart
- Head Over Heels
- Change
- I Believe
- The Hurting
- Broken
- Ideas As Opiates
- Badman’s Song
- Suffer the Children
- Goodnight Song