Released: October 18, 2019

Featuring: Ne-Yo

Songwriter: Tearce Kizzo Armin van Buuren Benno de Goeij Corporal Ne-Yo

Producer: Tearce Kizzo Benno de Goeij Corporal Armin van Buuren

[Verse 1]
Ah, hmm
Tell me where, tell me where, ah
How the hell they do that? Hmm
We went from hugs to kissing to making love
And when you see me now it's a pound of regret on my back

[Pre-Chorus]
Am I supposed to act like you ain’t used to throw it back like that
Off that alcohol
Tell me how am I supposed to only look at you as my homie
Imma keep it real girl I can't do that at all, no

[Chorus]
Said if we can't be lovers we can’t be friends
Something I just don't think I can do, no
Said if we can't be lovers we can't be friends
'Cause I don't know how to unlove you
How to unlove you

[Verse 2]
How the hell did you expect me to
Not think about the shower when I see you
I used to have your legs shaking
Now when you see me it's "Hey friend"
What the hell am I supposed to do?

[Pre-Chorus]
Am I supposed to act like you ain't used to throw it back like that
Off that alcohol
Tell me how am I supposed to only look at you as my homie
Imma keep it real girl I can’t do that at all, no

[Chorus]
Said if we can’t be lovers we can't be friends
Something I just don’t think I can do, no
Said if we can't be lovers we can't be friends
'Cause I don’t know how to unlove you
Said if we can't be lovers we can't be friends
Something I just don't think I can do, no
Said if we can't be lovers we can't be friends
'Cause I don't know how to unlove you
How to unlove you

[Outro]
We can't be friends, oh
How the hell am I supposed to unlove you?

Armin van Buuren

It takes little to recognize that Armin van Buuren is one of the world’s biggest DJs and producers in electronic music for over twenty years. His life-long dedication to the scene has earned him a Grammy® nomination for ‘This Is What It Feels Like’ (feat. Trevor Guthrie) and saw him release global hit singles such as ‘Blah Blah Blah’, ‘Wild Wild Son’, ‘Therapy’, ‘Sex, Love & Water’, ‘Sunny Days’, ‘I Need You’ and ‘Another You’. Additionally, he claimed the number one spot in the annual DJ Mag Top 100 DJs poll for an unprecedented five times, contributing to the nineteen consecutive top 5 spots to date (the most recent being a #4 in the DJ Mag Top 100 DJs poll of 2020). On October 25, 2019, Armin van Buuren released his seventh artist album, ‘Balance’.

His two-hour radio show, A State of Trance (ASOT), is broadcast weekly from his own radio studio in the Armada Music HQ in Amsterdam to over 44 million listeners in more than 80 countries, as well as online via audio and video live stream on YouTube, Facebook and Twitch. It shows the magnitude of ASOT, which has grown from a small radio show into a complete dance music brand, with stages and events all over the world.

Armin van Buuren has launched several ‘Armin Only’ world tours throughout the years, including the ones based on his albums (‘Imagine’ in 2008, ‘Mirage’ in 2010, ‘Intense’ in 2013 and ‘Embrace’ in 2016) and ‘The Best Of Armin Only’ in 2017. In May 2021, one year later than originally planned due to the Corona pandemic, Armin van Buuren will play his most personal and intimate live shows yet through four sold-out shows in the Ziggo ‘This Is Me’.

From the album