Songwriter: Glen Ballard Alanis Morissette

Producer: Alanis Morissette Glen Ballard

[Verse 1]
As we were talking outside, it was cold
We were shivering, yet warmed by the subject matter
“My wife is in the next room
We’ve been having troubles, you know
Please, don’t tell her or anyone, but I need to talk to somebody”
You said, “Wouldn’t it be a shame if I knew how great I was five minutes before I died?
I’d be filled with such regret before I took my last breath”
And I said, “You’re willing to tell me this now, and you’re not gonna to die any time soon”
And I said, “I haven’t been eating chicken or meat or anything”
And you said, “Yes, but you’ve been wearing leather”, and laughed and said, “We’re at the top of the food chain, and yes, you’re still a fine woman”
I cringed

[Chorus 1]
I was hoping, I was hoping we could heal each other
I was hoping, I was hoping we could be raw together

[Verse 2]
We left the restaurant where the head waiter, in his 60s, said “Goodbye, sir
Thank you for your business, sir
You’re successful and established, sir
And we like the frequency with which you dine here, sir… and your money”
And when I walked by, they said, “Thank you too, dear”
I was all pigtails and cords, and there was a day when I would’ve said something like, “Hey, dude, I could buy and sell this place, so kiss it”
I too once thought I was owed something

[Chorus 2]
I was hoping, I was hoping we could challenge each other
I was hoping, I was hoping we could crack each other up

[Verse 3]
I too thought that, when proved wrong, I lost somehow
And I too once thought life was cruel, and it’s a cycle, really
You think I’m withdrawing and guilt-tripping you
I think you’re insensitive, and I don’t feel heard
And I said, “Do you believe we are fundamentally judgmental, fundamentally evil?”, and you said, “Yes”
I said, “I don’t believe in revenge, in right or wrong, good or bad”
You said, “Well, what about that man that I saw handcuffed in the emergency room, bleeding after beating his kid, and she threw a shoe at his head? I think what he did was wrong and I would’ve had a hard time feeling compassion for him”
I had to watch my tone for fear of having you feel judged

[Chorus 3]
I was hoping, I was hoping we could dance together
I was hoping, I was hoping we could be creamy together

Alanis Morissette

Alanis Nadine Morissette was born on June 1, 1974, in Ottawa, Canada. At age 6, she began taking piano lessons, and by the time she was 9, she was writing her own songs.

When she was 11, Morissette joined the cast of a Nickelodeon children’s show called You Can’t Do That on Television, and saved up her earnings. In 1987, she used them to self-release her first track, “Fate Stay With Me.” The song caught the attention of record label MCA Canada; at age 14, Morissette signed a contract with the company. She released a self-titled album, Alanis, in 1991, which went platinum. Quickly following up the success of her first album, Morissette released Now Is The Time a year later, though it did not reach the same level of popularity.

In 1994 Morissette moved to Los Angeles teamed up with industry veteran Glen Ballard, and she began to approach songwriting more organically.